Unfairness is probably the most
indispensable element in human life. We dealt with it since we were young and
never seem to leave us even when we’re old. Unfairness has brought the best and
worst out of most people. For some, unfairness is a stepping stone while others
just have to dig deep and accept it.
Unfairness in human aspects including social
life, material aspect, happiness, achievements, opportunities, etc has been
drawing lines to throw people high above the clouds and leave people down to
struggle. How life can be for fairness to prevail? We never know because it
will never be achieve in this world. For some anime lovers would know that a
fair world can be achieved in the Naruto Series. Uchiha Madara plans to project
his eye on the moon and cast an illusion to earth so that dreams can take over
the human life and he would be creating a new society where everything is fair.
This is too good to be true but Naruto defies it. This is because the price of
having a fair world would be human would lose their freedom to act as they
please. Under communism, which claim that every citizens would receive equal
sharing also exists. But at the end of the day, there would be someone with too
much power and unfairness would also exist in the eyes of others. There is
always a price for fairness and the degree of tolerance depends on individuals.
Some say it is worth bargaining in exchange for ultimate fairness.
The life is like a balance beam. Sometimes you
may gain high while sometimes is just not your day. If you think you deserve to
earn some gain, then you felt happy for it. However, the human minds are complicated.
It can produce solutions from every permutation and combination from an
unanswered question. In perspective wise, people deemed you do not deserve it
and see it as prejudice, sometimes, you yourself even think that what is being
poured in will receive the right amount of reward and this like you standing
still on the balance beam. However, do not be overjoyed just because of that
gain because people tend to make mistake on a comfortable seat. Also achieving
success with unorthodox means wouldn’t be happy-ing for long.
Being realistically, we will never stop
succumb to the effect of prejudice and it is best to figure up a solution to
negate it. One of the ways is to hold still to your religion and use what is
available to channel your unpleasant feelings into a pleasant vibe. For some
who have a lucky streak, the success wouldn’t stay long. I had watched Survivor
for seasons and those sole survivor who never meant to win, but won the 1
million cash prize are often sidelined when the true tests come. Tina Wesson
who won the Survivor Australian Outcasts was lucky to have been chosen to the
final tribal council was the first to be kicked off at the Survivor All Stars.
Colby Donalson, the true American Hero although lost to Tina, was given the opportunity
to win the Sexist Man Award at the All Stars and also earned places in Survivor
Heroes Vs Villians and All Stars. It doesn’t matter he lost to Tina, because he
has earned the support from the survivor fans. Chris who miraculously won
Survivor Vanuatu was never heard again, same goes to Brian from Survivor Thailand.
Those who played earnestly and whole hearted are recognized. Yau-Man from Survivor
Fiji, Ami from Survivor Vanuatu, Amanda from Survivor China, Stephanie from Survivor
Palau earned respects although they never win.
To
share my personal experience, I felt that the other side of down can give your
more insight of knowledge and experience that will never be learned by those
who somehow sail smooth to success. This can be a good leverage in case you
were on the down side of the balance beam. It gives you opportunity to strengthen
yourself in whichever aspect and turn it into a norm so that when times came
for you to shine after countless times at the down side, you would still remember
the feeling of the down side and drives you to keep maintaining the top spot.
